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Same with my wife too - since day 1. She likes for him to pause once he gets all the way in, but then he can slowly pick up the pace but nothing crazy.

Wife and I are usually once every 1-2 weeks

I have never had much of an interest in anal, so my wife’s first real experiences with anal have been with the guy she has been seeing. He had always had an interest but had never been with a woman who was willing to try it. My wife “gave” it to him as a Christmas present early on when they...

My wife’s first (and only to this point) is a man who had been her coworker/friend who had left town for a couple years and then returned to our town at a different job. He had reached out with my wife to reconnect as former colleagues and at first were completely platonic. They bonded over...

Watching my wife’s entire mood/demeanor change as she embraces and prioritizes her own physical pleasure. Happy wife/happy life.

Unfortunately, I do think this is a common conclusion to jump to. My wife definitely thought that was my underlying interest when I brought up the idea to her. I agree that the only solution is thorough and honest communication.

My wife and I struggled with this topic too. At first we wanted to keep it to just the two of us (plus the guy she was seeing). After awhile, my wife did tell me that keeping it a secret was weighing on her especially because she was foregoing some regular things she did with her friends. I...

I very much appreciate the advice in this thread. We are still relatively new to all this, but I echo the comment about constant and deliberate communication. I think this is important as any couple begins their journey down whatever path they choose, but it’s at least equally if not more...

I think my wife’s number was about 35 before we got married. She definitely had a fun time back in college.

I’ll admit, there was a bit of awkwardness at the beginning which is probably expected as this was the first time for any of us in this type of interpersonal dynamic. I give all the credit to my wife for navigating us through any initial awkwardness. I hope that you get to a good understanding...

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For us, my wife has been seeing the same guy for a little under two years. He and I are cordial/friendly and we have a group text with the three of us for when we need to work out logistics and other things. I am grateful that we can have friendly interactions that aren’t awkward but I don’t...

My wife has encouraged me to find a community where I’m comfortable talking about this dynamic in our relationship as she knew I wouldn’t talk about it with my friends IRL. She does know that I’ve found some outlets with people who have similar interests and fully supports that I talk to others...

Hey - yes, we are a couple hours south of the city.

My wife’s guy is right between our house and her office so very convenient

When we started, we were very discrete but since then my wife has told a couple of her close friends about our arrangement and they’ve all been supportive. My wife’s sister also found out and after a little awkwardness initially, she’s also been very positive about it. A couple of my wife’s...

Thanks for the perspective. Adding someone else to the mix is definitely something I think would be cool but I’ll ultimately defer to my wife for what she’s comfortable with.

Hey Matt - thanks for the response. Wife was actually just up in Chicago a couple weekends ago for the Taylor swift concert. Right now, wife is still happy with developing things with the same guy and hasn’t really been looking to add anyone new.

thanks for your feedback and perspective! So far, for us, it has been my wife going over to his place to develop their connection. I certainly try to encourage it as much as I can. The main thing I’ve learned about supporting them throwing this has just been figuring out how I can pick up...

Can’t believe how many in Illinois! We are in Bloomington!