I think you've jumped a few important steps, rules, and emotions. Love to hear job it all goes but make sure you keep talking to your wife and keep the honesty.
Might be worth bringing up the BBC that her cousin stole... perhaps suggest that she might have had him if the cousin wasn't there.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Most guys will trip over their tongue to see you hunni, there are no supermodels in here just us normal people. If you are willing to pursue the lifestyle with your hubby, you'll be a superstar! I wish you a long and fruitful journey. I'll be watching with interest. L