hi, saw your reply in IR post. I have been encouraging my wife since we were married 14 yrs ago, and finally, 6 months ago, she started flirting in a club. Kathy is 36 and seeing a black man, 48. He has been wearing condoms since she is not on bc. She has also been careful what time of the month it is, and avoid any risk. I wish the condoms would break, personally, just makes me horny.