Just have to help her to understand our American tradition of having pretty wives and girlfriends spending a week or so with our big black friends on a motel room.
I am sure she learned when going to school in China about our American past as a country, and she can empathize with the needs of our black American brothers.
As any other women, when she becomes part of that tradition once, she will be always happy to follow that again, at least once a month.