I love that answer! But seriously, I get the being open to all opportunities, but do you have regular lovers that are your age? My wife knows I like the idea of her having sex with others. She says it will never happen but she "plays along" with the idea when we have sex. I really think the biggest problem is that we're older (both 66) and not as attractive as we once were. That's why I asked about the age group. I can imagine it's easy to find younger people and not as easy finding older ones.
We are also older so we can relate. We do have regulars and they are mostly in our age group. But I think that's more because we do other things outside of the lifestyle as well with them. As far as guys for sex.........men are men. At any age, if they can still function, give them just about any little flirt and their little brain takes over. 😛 Older guys tend to take things slower and usually put more 'love' in their sex. Middle age vary more from shy and gentle to wanting to prove they are macho. The latter are not really my type and if he is an eveready bunny he'll find that's not really for me. The very young (18-21) often times get too excited and cum almost immediately. I've had them cum before they even get it in me. I think it's more because they have an opportunity to 'do' an older lady. I love their excitement and fortunately they also tend to recover quickly and do much better the second, third, and.............times.
As far as the ladies go for Bob I can only say what I see. I think the older ladies tend to lose their interest more. But he's younger looking than his age and well endowed so that attracts quite a few younger ladies. With age often times comes additional weight and ladies worry about that more. Bob is attracted to that so once they realize it he's usually good to go. Couples seem especially attracted to him for a third.
We are also older so we can relate. We do have regulars and they are mostly in our age group. But I think that's more because we do other things outside of the lifestyle as well with them. As far as guys for sex.........men are men. At any age, if they can still function, give them just about any little flirt and their little brain takes over. 😛 Older guys tend to take things slower and usually put more 'love' in their sex. Middle age vary more from shy and gentle to wanting to prove they are macho. The latter are not really my type and if he is an eveready bunny he'll find that's not really for me. The very young (18-21) often times get too excited and cum almost immediately. I've had them cum before they even get it in me. I think it's more because they have an opportunity to 'do' an older lady. I love their excitement and fortunately they also tend to recover quickly and do much better the second, third, and.............times.
As far as the ladies go for Bob I can only say what I see. I think the older ladies tend to lose their interest more. But he's younger looking than his age and well endowed so that attracts quite a few younger ladies. With age often times comes additional weight and ladies worry about that more. Bob is attracted to that so once they realize it he's usually good to go. Couples seem especially attracted to him for a third.
Thanks for your reply. It's hard to get a real perspective on how people do this. I know it's an individual experience and different for each person. Still, it's nice to ask someone that's older and been successfully in the lifestyle for years. There's a lot of wisdom in that. Just like your perspective on the pros and cons of older and younger lovers and specifically older women. I can tell those things do not escape you.
