As a wife, I can agree and say you are 100% correct, every married woman needs to have a side hustle like this. Fortunately, my husband understands this and is not intimidated by it so he lets me play freely with other men to fill my needs. It just makes me love him and want him all that much more.
Husbands need to get their video early, while the wife is still being fucked on top of the covers. As her relationship with her lover develops and she's spending the night or weekend with him, most of the sex will be under the covers, spontaneous, without hubby in the room. At this point, pregnancy risk is increasing exponentially.