As he should too. If we let them inside without a condom, it is an acceptance that our Lover will cum inside too!! They should not have to ask us about that......although I do admit to enjoying the conversation about where to cum, am I on birth control, I only use a diaphragm for birth control and things got going too fast to put it in, do I want to put it in now, not really....I enjoy the risk, you mean you'll risk getting pregnant with ME.....and that is about where they lose any control and I get what I want!! J (the wife)